Facebook Slapped Me On The Wrist
Tags: Facebook, Humor, MySpace, Social Networking
Facebook is mad at me, or so it seems. I think they want me to take a timeout…
It seems that Facebook likes to put limitations on certain things. Earlier this week, I was accepting a few friend requests and requested a few friends when I received the “strike 1″ red alert message. It basically said “Stop! You are making friends too quickly!.” And then it rambled on about how I would get disabled for a few days if I kept going.
I suppose this started happening since I created this blog and have been meeting a lot of new people from around the world. I get a few friend requests everyday but nothing I would consider “too much.”
So this got me to thinking, why would a social network as big as Facebook have to apply such limitations. I mean, isn’t the point of a networking site to meet new people, regardless if you have actually met them in person? I have a lot of friends that I have never met in person but still talk to them often, does this mean they are not an actual friend? I think not.
I decided to do some research and see what I could bring up about these Facebook limitations that no one seems to actually know about until they get a warning.
I managed to find a ton of people complaining about the same types of messages. I even found a great article, “13 Reasons Your Facebook Account Will Be Disabled,” which talks about the common reasons peoples accounts get disabled.
Now some of these reasons I can agree with. For example, I can see why not using your real name might cause some suspician and get you banned from Facebook. But adding to many friends and poking too many people? Come on!
It turns out, they even have a friend limit of 5,000 people on Facebook. Once you hit the magic number of 5,000, people will recieve the “So and So already has too many friends” message when trying to add you. Yeah, I suppose 5,000 friends is plenty for most users of Facebook. But then again, my goal of this blog is to make myself famous, so I just might make 5,000 friends along the way…Ha Ha
The creators over at Myspace have set no limitations on things like friends, messages being sent, or how many people you can send things to. I think this is the way a social networking site should be. Why limit anyone from getting what they want out of a networking site?
So I am interested to see if this happens to a lot of other people. If it has already happened to you, please drop me a comment and let me know how it went.
Also, feel free to add me on Facebook, might as well go for “Strike 2″. I can’t wait to see what this red alert message will say. Maybe something along the lines of, “We weren’t kidding, there is a Facebook van outside your apartment and we are keeping our eyes on you!”
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I had the same thing happen, only mine was for joining to many groups. For some reason, 200 is the magic number you are allowed to join. I really don’t understand all the limitations, but then again, its Facebook.
I didn’t know they did this. Sounds a bit stupid. Maybe if we get enough people they will change it.
Perhaps its to stop those friend adder programs. That could easily be fixed though through those CAPCHAS or whatever they are called.
I didn’t even know they had a warning system, let alone that they warned you for “making too many friends.” That’s just ridiculous, in my opinion. You make them extra friends, and make them warn you again for being too popular!
Wow, Facebook surprises me yet again. I hope you continue to add and make as many friends as possible. You will have to keep us posted on what happens.
Yes, I am addled by the inanity of such restrictions. Even if your only object is to proliferate your friends roster with superficial or random contacts, then let that be the decision of the profile user. IF, this site is intended for adding your true friends or even casual acquaintances, then lets stop the foolish “search” engines for people via other networks. True, this is a viable method of locating lost (cough) friends; if they were true chums you would not have to do this. Seriously, this site offers the convenience of finding people you are somewhat concerned about, or genuinely do care for. But the networking feature contradicts the “limit” imposed on users by adding too many friends. It is intended on making friends by implementing this feature. If facebook is concerned about random and popularity augmenting of adding too many friends, then they should abdicate the “search”, “browse”, and “networking” options. Oh no!!! The true concept, and context, as I infer, of facebook is to display your real friends, meet new friends, inundate profile with silly pokes, glitter, personality quizzes, and enjoy the suspense of meeting random others without the hassle of filling your day with an exorbitant amount of attending every single social gathering known to man in order to create friendships or self promotion. I recently enlisted onto facebook and it, by far, is nowhere near the excitement as Myspace. Sure, it may offer a tad more class, due to the context from which it derived; school, work, etc. Plus potential employers, probation officers, etc. often, from what I ascertained, utilize this to spy on unsuspecting individuals. So it behooves people to remain discreet and cautious of what they say. I supposed I digressed from the issue at hand on a tangent. How about it should be of no concern in any fashion to the creators of this site of what people do as long as it, in no shape or form, violates the safety of anyone. How can I be able to make unsupervised contact, at least I think, with minors and be disallowed adding too many friends? At least they interdict the application of nudity here, as expected. However, I may be as salacious (lewd) as I feel I need to be during my introduction of myself. Do they not screen the content of your personal declaration? We may even disclose our phone number and address. I can conceive the friends limit may preclude cyberspace stalkers from employing “trojan horse” type methods of obtaining personal info. However, facebook can place a lets say five friend limit, and this still wouldn’t be sufficient in safeguarding from these nefarious characters. Maybe a more viable way of countering random, and sometimes unwanted requests, is to require somebody to enter the prospective friends’ information, e-mail add., last name, etc., prior to submitting a request. The privacy option provides the user of setting these options. So, what is the real purpose of limiting friends requests? Maybe this is a premonition of what maybe to come. Nothing is free and perhaps you may have to pay in order to be able to take advantage of the “real” intended purpose of facebook!
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Ah, help me! I JUST started facebook like 3 days ago and now they’ve disabled me. Is this a JOKE!? I mean, I’m completely new…and I just started adding friends and they said I had too many within one session? Eeeeek, now it’s been like a week, and I am getting NO response from Facebook! It took me forever to get it together, now they just take it from me. Urgh, WHAT DO I DO, I’ve e-mailed probably every e-mail address Facebook has gotten. I feel helpless, if anyone has any ideas…please e-mail me at m.manzur@umiami.edu Thanks!
Ya I totally just got banned from facebook for too many friend requests. It’s not my fault I’m uber popular. WTF. I emailed them, but I expect I’ll get no results.
Ive been an active member of facebook for a long time, i dont have too many friends, im not a member of more than 30 groups, i message friends i cant see and leave messgaes on walls.
Apprently this is spamming…. I recieved a warning and im amazed and gutted!
Does anyone have an email address that i can contact them on please… seeing as they dont have a ‘contact us’ thing on the actual site…
I joined, then got over, Facebook real quick. They need to learn from MySpace and go from there.
Seems to be around 50 – 80 friends is the limit per day.
adding 50-80 friends as a limit per day seems to correspond to my experience a few weekends ago. That is when I got my first “slow down you are about to hit a block” message.
I estimate I added about that number you cite, over the weekend.
But then I did slow down. I just added a few friends a day after that, and about on the third day, I got that message AGAIN. Now I have not added any more friends since then. I was meeting great people, it was really fun, and now I am uncertain if I add even one more friend, I might get blocked from adding friends, or even have my account disabled as I have read happens to people with facebook. The facebook men in black might get me !
I have friends on facebook with thousands of friends, way more than me. How did that happen? I think that 50-80 limit you are estimating triggers more than a daily limit.
It might even put a permanent scar on my account. I wrote them, but a week later, no response.
A colleague sent me this post… I had mentioned that I’m totally stressed out about my FaceBook/LinkedIn/Etc. accounts. Too many people.
She asked why. My answer – it’s like a challenge. I do actually know all 300+ people I’m attached to on FaceBook, and all 200+ on LinkedIn. But most people assume I’m a collector, and my insecurity flares.
I may just abandon ship…
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Even though you originally started this blog months ago, just wanted to pipe in with a : they are STILL doing it. I got a wrist slap yesterday because I added like 50 or so friends. Like you, my name is out there, and some of the things I am involved in – well, people see me and it’s not hard to find me on FB, so they are sending friend requests. I was ‘encouraged’ to send messages and not post so much, as well. Well, they obviously didn’t mean that OR they wouldn’t have removed my ability to message either.
I can’t do anything about it. Today alone, I’ve received 12 adds. LOL It’s going to suck REALLY bad if they ban me altogether. I think a few of the people I’ve added are spam bots in the way, their only goal is to have a ton of friends, and probably passed along my name now. What I want to know is: how come THEY aren’t banned?! I have no control anymore over this thing, so I’ll just ride it out.
Just to let you know i have been disabled but i sent an email to facebook and the reinstated me
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In my opinion, the limitation that facebook implemented is for discipline. After all it’s not about quantity but quality.
Yeah this has been around for a few years. Everytime I reactivate my account for new years and start adding people again. I managed to get around 80 people added in less than a few days. I get the message when I request to add too quickly. Might have to wait more than a day for it to cool down.
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I hate Facebook, they’re so draconian.
I only added 30 new friends and the warning came up.
Maybe facebook cant’t handle the loads they are getting. I bet their system is overloading so they are limiting the number of friends you can have. I only have 300 total friends and have been getting the warning messages.
This happened to me as well. I haven’t heard anything back from them yet… grr.. >:[
I like to keep my Facebook more of a personal use to keep in touch with friends and family. I didn’t know they have a friend limit on it though. I believe Twitter is also doing the same thing to try to limit users you can follow. I know celebrities can easily have over 5,000 “friends”. It is messed up that Facebook only allows you to have certain amount of friends.
i got the same exact msg when can i start adding ppl again??? plz if some1 already experienced it reply to his soon plzzz i really need to kno
Same here.. i think its something to dfo with savin gmoney on server usage in facebook
I got a misbehaving and threading warning from facebook when I was trying to add friends. This is a world wide social network arena. If I refuse someones request to be added as friend or vice versa there is no misbehaving activity committed here. No need to be threaten. I hope facebook clean up their bull-shits.
I always thought Facebook was a social networking website? I guess after all that new applications became popular, I guess they became strict. Especially the rules about keeping your personal photos. They’re probably afraid of spammers. Cause I understand, because on Myspace, that’s load of spammers that try to add me. But the limitations is a very pretty dumb idea. I mean if you call your site a social networking website, don’t put limits on friend invitation.
Maybe the creator of Facebook really don’t have any REAL friends in real life. Probably a loner.
i encountered the same problem, could anybody kindly tell me what to do and does this mean i can no longer add anymore friends?…what should i do so that i can add more friends in future?…thank you in advance!