Struggling with finding local hot girls to hook up with may seem like a bunch of bullshit the sidebar ads on porn sites try to shove down your throat but in reality; you could be fucking girls in a 20-mile radius starting whenever you want. Just make sure you’re not making these mistakes.
You Don’t Use Dating Apps
If you don’t use dating apps, what the fuck are you doing? In the year 2018 dating apps are taking the casual sex world by storm. If you want to get laid, you NEED to create some kind of dating profile before you die alone in a one bedroom apartment.
Get Tinder or Bumble or whatever you want. Try them all if you have to, but for heaven’s sake, make a fucking move. Just open up the app store and browse to your heart’s content. Even if you’re not the best looking guy, you can still find girls who want to fuck on those apps. But you will have even better luck on dedicated fuckbuddy matching sites like MeetBang I promise you.
You’re Out of Your League
I’m sorry, but we all have to come to terms with what we are. Obviously there’s always the chance to improve your appearance, but for now, you need to find girls in your league. Denying every single girl unless she’s Instagram model tier of hotness isn’t the best way to do it.
Even if you don’t want to fuck these girls, it’ll do you well just to talk to them. Having girls chase after you can be a huge confidence booster in general. I know I have a bit more of a spring in my step whenever I have a lot of Tinder matches stacked up, even if they’re not total babes.
You’re Being Too Pushy
Most girls like to be pursued just like most men do. However, If you’re too aggressive right away with these girls; they’re not going to want to talk to you.
If you’re at the point where you’re actually getting mad at girls for rejecting you and being rude in retaliation, you need to take a step back and remember that not everyone wants to sleep with you and some girls are just plain rude. That’s OK though. Just be patient and try to relax and have fun.
If you’re having trouble making the first message worth their while then I suggest you try Bumble. Bumble lets you match with hotties, but in order to have a conversation with these girls, they have to message you first. This allows girls to make the first move and basically say “I’m interested in hanging out with you” without saying much at all. Not many signals to read up on here.
Your Pictures Suck
There’s no shame in being ugly. I’m ugly and I still pull b-a-b-e-s on dating apps on the regular. Poor looks are no excuse for having shitty pictures. Please god, no more bathroom selfies.
Try to take pictures from your camera roll that show off how social you are. Maybe post a picture of you at a party, but whatever you do, just make sure you’re looking your personal best.
You’ll always get extra points for posting a picture of yourself with a dog. Any dog. It’s a good conversation starter, plus puppies are adorable so fuck it, why not?